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Crawford Hart<\/strong> \nGuest Contributor<\/strong><\/pre>\n\n\n\n

It was our once-a-month team dinner meeting and we\u2019d chosen one of our favorite Irish bars on Third Avenue, somewhere in the low 20\u2019s. The place was crowded, the sidewalks outside were packed, traffic was a nightmare, which none of us had to worry about, having ridden trains in from Brooklyn. It was 7:30. Time to begin. One of our guys arrived at 7:35, which he acknowledged as he sat down. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m late,\u201d he said, a fact sufficiently obvious that it required no particular embellishment from the rest of us. And so we proceeded with a dinner of 2\u201d thick chops and took care of team business.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

An hour later there was one more task to tend to and out in front of the bar, on the crowded sidewalk, we got down to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAssume the position,\u201d commanded our captain and we formed a line six abreast, hit the pavement and began doing push-ups and counting aloud.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019d noticed two cops standing nearby as we exited the bar, but I became more acutely aware of the other passers-by. As we began our exercise, I heard some sniggers, some condescending rude noises and a woman\u2019s voice trilling, \u201cAren\u2019t they cute?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And then the cops were in front of us. Where, I wondered, was this heading? A loud voice booming above us left no doubt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAll right, gentlemen; if you\u2019re gonna do this, do it right. Together! Down! SLOW! Now hold. Back up. And again. Down slow. Hold! Come on, hold, don\u2019t be pussies. Back up.\u201d And so it went, two of New York\u2019s finest teaching a pack of dilettantes a lesson in commitment, pride and teamwork. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Truth is, we\u2019d been a little arrogant, proud of our public display, assuming no one would get it, wearing our \u201cotherness\u201d like a badge. We could have waited till we got back to Brooklyn to honor the core tenant of all teams: they move in sync; one man fucks up, the team fucks up; one man\u2019s late, the team is late. Balance disrupted must be restored. But we\u2019d forgotten what it was about. \u201cLook what we can do,\u201d we were saying, \u201cand fuck you if you don\u2019t get it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we reached 25 and started to fall out, we were met with, \u201cThe fuck you doing? You ain\u2019t done.\u201d And so they pushed us through 10 more. And yeah, we were exhausted when we finally got up. Most of us were older than we liked and fatter than we should have been.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I guess there were still some people watching, I don\u2019t really remember. Our captain said, \u201cThanks, officers; we had some business to take care of.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They laughed. \u201cSounds good to me,\u201d one said, and they sauntered off. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Heading back to Brooklyn, no one said anything about standards, supporting each other, keeping our word, giving our best and staying focused on what really matters. The words sound kind of silly when spoken aloud. Besides, two guys whose lives depended every day on never forgetting the value of those ideals had just provided us with the experience. Sometimes you have to know when to keep quiet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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