{"id":15401,"date":"2020-10-28T01:12:36","date_gmt":"2020-10-28T05:12:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/2020\/10\/28\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/"},"modified":"2021-04-25T17:12:19","modified_gmt":"2021-04-25T21:12:19","slug":"the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/","title":{"rendered":"The Key Factor in Successful Enrollment"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Brian Childers <\/strong> \nMDI Contributor<\/strong><\/pre>\n\n\n\n

As I was rummaging through my brain searching for what I have to say about the topic of enrollment, one word showed up consistently: RELATIONSHIP!  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

One must first establish relationship before anyone wants to hear anything I have to say to them or enroll them.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why should they listen to me; why should they care what I have to say? Who am I to them? Or maybe more importantly when discussing enrollment, who am I FOR them?  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am I trying to get something from them or schnook them or hoodwink them into something? What is their experience of me?  Do they trust me? Have I hurt or disrespected them in some large or small way? Am I worthy of their trust?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These are valuable questions that arise in the invaluable process of enrollment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I have been fortunate to have been trained well in, and have somewhat of a natural gift for, sales. A valuable lesson for me was to listen more than I talk \u2013 understand the NEED of my customer\/client and help them fill it. The rest will take care of itself. Another way I\u2019ve heard this expressed is: God gave you two ears and one mouth, use them in proportion. (Wish that I would have taken said advice myself at certain times in my past.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When attempting to train or school someone in enrollment, the usual chorus of resistance comes up: Oh, here comes the sales pitch. I don\u2019t need to know that; I\u2019m not in sales. I don\u2019t like to be pushy. I hate sales, that\u2019s why I went into IT. Blah, blah. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of my discoveries was unless I wanted to do EVERYTHING alone, I\u2019d better develop some enrollment skills. Would you like to see a movie with me? Can I buy you a drink? Can we have lunch together? Wanna take a walk? Do you see where this is headed and will eventually end up IF I am successful? If not, it\u2019ll be me and lefty taking Big Jim and the Twins out solo again.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actually, I\u2019m not just referring to sex (though it had been 17 seconds and I was due to think about it again). It also relates to business opportunities, personal growth courses\/trainings, exercise events, holding hands with your sweetie, etc. ALL require successful enrollment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

More lessons in enrollment speaks to revealing or unconcealing part of oneself that might touch, move or inspire another to take an action in a positive direction regarding the ongoing enrollment conversation. On our teams, this is obviously called \u201cdropping our mask\u201d \u2013 or symbolically laying down our weapon and making oneself vulnerable (literally not a threat \u2013 in that moment). This ritual has the possibility of generating trust among men. And, when trust has been developed the possibility of enrollment increases greatly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Along these lines of enrollment lessons, an old exercise comes to mind:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Four Balls of Enrollment<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
  1. Find a man you care about<\/strong><\/li>
  2. Drop your mask<\/strong><\/li>
  3. Don\u2019t do it alone<\/strong><\/li>
  4. Don\u2019t quit<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    I was the Enrollment Manager for the Renegades (the FIRST Division in Application in Atlanta and therefore the Southeast USA). It was 1994 and I was three years out of the SMW (9\/91, Spencer, MA) and pretty damn gung ho Sterling.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    I don\u2019t remember who actually told me about The Four Balls of Enrollment, but I suspect it may have been Jonas Maghram from Iowa. After having been so informed, I got busy. We had it in our minds we were GOING to become a Sterling Division in good standing! I took it on myself to write a slightly exhaustive missive on The Four Balls of Enrollment. Hey, now that I think of it I\u2019m kinda surprised that one of the \u201cballs of enrollment\u201d wasn\u2019t \u201cgrab your balls.\u201d Anyway. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The actual missive is HERE.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    I am proud of it, even after all these years. It is time tested. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Brian Childers MDI Contributor As I was rummaging through my brain searching for what I have to say about the topic of enrollment, one word showed up consistently: RELATIONSHIP!  One must first establish relationship before anyone wants to hear anything I have to say to them or enroll them.  Why should they listen to me; […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":18844,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[65],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15401","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-enrollment-into-our-successes"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nThe Key Factor in Successful Enrollment - MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"The Key Factor in Successful Enrollment - MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Brian Childers MDI Contributor As I was rummaging through my brain searching for what I have to say about the topic of enrollment, one word showed up consistently: RELATIONSHIP!  One must first establish relationship before anyone wants to hear anything I have to say to them or enroll them.  Why should they listen to me; […]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2020-10-28T05:12:36+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2021-04-25T21:12:19+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1080\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"550\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Guest Writer\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Guest Writer\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Guest Writer\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#\/schema\/person\/c4c526dcf5afec353c5d87667345fb88\"},\"headline\":\"The Key Factor in Successful Enrollment\",\"datePublished\":\"2020-10-28T05:12:36+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2021-04-25T21:12:19+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/\"},\"wordCount\":668,\"commentCount\":3,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#organization\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg\",\"articleSection\":[\"Enrollment into our Successes\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-CA\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/\",\"name\":\"The Key Factor in Successful Enrollment - MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2020-10-28T05:12:36+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2021-04-25T21:12:19+00:00\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-CA\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-CA\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg\",\"width\":1080,\"height\":550},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"The Key Factor in Successful Enrollment\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/\",\"name\":\"MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams\",\"description\":\"Mentor - Discover - Inspire - Men's Teams\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-CA\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#organization\",\"name\":\"MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-CA\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/logo-mdi.svg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/logo-mdi.svg\",\"width\":241,\"height\":109,\"caption\":\"MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\"}},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#\/schema\/person\/c4c526dcf5afec353c5d87667345fb88\",\"name\":\"Guest Writer\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-CA\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ce2afca1a9600091c243a0cc80dfc983?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ce2afca1a9600091c243a0cc80dfc983?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Guest Writer\"},\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/author\/guestwriter\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"The Key Factor in Successful Enrollment - MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"The Key Factor in Successful Enrollment - MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams","og_description":"Brian Childers MDI Contributor As I was rummaging through my brain searching for what I have to say about the topic of enrollment, one word showed up consistently: RELATIONSHIP!  One must first establish relationship before anyone wants to hear anything I have to say to them or enroll them.  Why should they listen to me; […]","og_url":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/","og_site_name":"MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams","article_published_time":"2020-10-28T05:12:36+00:00","article_modified_time":"2021-04-25T21:12:19+00:00","og_image":[{"width":1080,"height":550,"url":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"Guest Writer","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Guest Writer","Est. reading time":"3 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/"},"author":{"name":"Guest Writer","@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#\/schema\/person\/c4c526dcf5afec353c5d87667345fb88"},"headline":"The Key Factor in Successful Enrollment","datePublished":"2020-10-28T05:12:36+00:00","dateModified":"2021-04-25T21:12:19+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/"},"wordCount":668,"commentCount":3,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#organization"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg","articleSection":["Enrollment into our Successes"],"inLanguage":"en-CA","potentialAction":[{"@type":"CommentAction","name":"Comment","target":["https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#respond"]}]},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/","url":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/","name":"The Key Factor in Successful Enrollment - MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg","datePublished":"2020-10-28T05:12:36+00:00","dateModified":"2021-04-25T21:12:19+00:00","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-CA","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-CA","@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg","width":1080,"height":550},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/the-key-factor-in-successful-enrollment\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"The Key Factor in Successful Enrollment"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/","name":"MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams","description":"Mentor - Discover - Inspire - Men's Teams","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-CA"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#organization","name":"MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams","url":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-CA","@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/logo-mdi.svg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/logo-mdi.svg","width":241,"height":109,"caption":"MDI - Mentoring men to live with excellence - Men's Teams"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"}},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#\/schema\/person\/c4c526dcf5afec353c5d87667345fb88","name":"Guest Writer","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-CA","@id":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ce2afca1a9600091c243a0cc80dfc983?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ce2afca1a9600091c243a0cc80dfc983?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Guest Writer"},"url":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/author\/guestwriter\/"}]}},"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg",1080,550,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor-300x153.jpg",300,153,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor-768x391.jpg",768,391,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor-1024x521.jpg",1024,521,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg",1080,550,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/keyfactor.jpg",1080,550,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Guest Writer","author_link":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/author\/guestwriter\/"},"uagb_comment_info":3,"uagb_excerpt":"Brian Childers MDI Contributor As I was rummaging through my brain searching for what I have to say about the topic of enrollment, one word showed up consistently: RELATIONSHIP!  One must first establish relationship before anyone wants to hear anything I have to say to them or enroll them.  Why should they listen to me;…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15401","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15401"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15401\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16921,"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15401\/revisions\/16921"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18844"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15401"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15401"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15401"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}