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You don\u2019t think of what could have been when you\u2019re worried the headboard is going to break. You don\u2019t think of the wasted time when the one sitting across from you now is so sweet and has such a beautiful smile that it lights up the room.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Power of NEXT!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The power of moving on is the true power of next! Allow me to share with you some of the real benefits I experienced by moving on right after my breakup.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Rebuilding Confidence: <\/strong>The breakup left me feeling rejected and doubting my self-worth. Dating can be a way to rebuild your confidence and reaffirm your value. When you receive positive attention and appreciation from new partners, it can help you rebuild your self-esteem and remind you that you are attractive and worthy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Self-Discovery: <\/strong>Dating was a chance for self-discovery and self-growth. 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