{"id":25920,"date":"2023-04-26T19:07:19","date_gmt":"2023-04-26T23:07:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/?p=25920"},"modified":"2023-06-01T16:19:24","modified_gmt":"2023-06-01T20:19:24","slug":"dad-hold-burns-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mentordiscoverinspire.org\/dad-hold-burns-family\/","title":{"rendered":"My Dad Hank – His Story"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Michael Burns Dr. H.C. Burns was born Chaim\/Henry\/Hank Charles Bernstein, grew up in the lower east side of Manhattan. His dad owned and operated a butcher shop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mom was born Gertrude\/Rusty Marion Ross and grew up in Wilmington Delaware, her dad, Morris, a furrier and real estate agent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hank was 12 when his dad died. According to the Jewish rules for mourning, to properly sit shiva for the deceased, there needed to be a minyan, a gathering of 10 men. Often he had to pay street people to come in to get the total up to 10. This made no sense to Henry, so he grew up drifting further and further away from caring about Judaism, or even the Jewish traditions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n His youth was spent helping his mom work the butcher shop, playing sports and doing his best in school. Dad went on to put himself through college, Cornell, and onto veterinary school at Michigan State. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dad met mom at his summer job waiting tables in the resorts of the Catskills. Mom was doing secretarial work in Manhattan at the time. She came up to the Catskills for vacation with her friends. <\/p>\n\n\n\n After marrying and graduating school, Dad got a job in the English colony, Bahamas, working as the island\u2019s vet. Clients included the Duke and Duchess of Windsor, their aristocratic community, and the native population of the island. They lived there until he had to join the army. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dad served as a Captain in WWII, taking care of horses and other animals while stationed in the Philippines. Mom was living on a base in South Carolina with their first child, my sister Peggy born in 1944. While in transit to the Philippines for duty, Dad passed through Alameda, CA Navel Air Base, fell in love with the San Francisco bay area and moved the family there upon discharging from the army.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dad began his own business in Oakland, a distributor of veterinary products to both large and small animal vets that covered all of the western states. I was born in \u201948 and younger sister Joyce arrived in \u201951.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As you can see from Dad\u2019s journey, he was very practical and realistic. His story is that traditional American dream of a self-made man who overcame all obstacles with vision, discipline, commitment, and \u201celbow grease.” <\/p>\n\n\n\n The \u201cJewish\u201d experience he had as a kid led him to embrace a philosophy that his life is best served by being identified only through his thoughts, words, and actions rather than external labels. Hence Burns not Bernstein.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When Hank brought the family to the Bay Area, the family had no religion. We assimilated into the cultural traditions of the community, and, even though many of Mom and Dad\u2019s friends over the decades were Jewish, none of them ever knew my folks came from Orthodox Jewish families. We children were free to explore, experiment, choose, adopt whatever path we found for ourselves. Fast forward at 78, 75, 72 years of age, the three Burns children have grown into Dad\u2019s life philosophy of \u201clabel-less-ness.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n I have been exploring, experimenting, choosing different experiences and paths ever since I was sent away to college at U.C. Santa Barbara in 1966. I\u2019ve been on hold for a few years from stretching and taking on new adventures, due to the pandemic and my wife Patty\u2019s bout with cancer and chemo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I very likely will move on from this current plateau to ascend other mountains in the future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ha Shem willing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Michael BurnsMDI Contributor Dr. H.C. Burns was born Chaim\/Henry\/Hank Charles Bernstein, grew up in the lower east side of Manhattan. His dad owned and operated a butcher shop. Mom was born Gertrude\/Rusty Marion Ross and grew up in Wilmington Delaware, her dad, Morris, a furrier and real estate agent. 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